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03-21-2010

I cry and get sad over little things like once every week and when i get sad, i get sad. I cry and send like huge paragraph texts explaining my problem to my friends. They keep saying i should be a happier person, but i cant. Should i pretend im happy around my friends?

It is better to find the reason for your sadness. It is probably either wrong desires that are unattained or you are hiding your true self which is causing a conflict between your mind and your soul.

I used to get sad when I desired people to like me, now I know I need to like myself, so I desire to be a good person more than anything. I’ve even gotten over my sexual addiction thanks to my "code".

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On Mar 21 2010 @ 23:56, QuiteNewHere said: |

After a while you will realize that most people hate sad people.
The negativity and the sadness can be catching and they resent you for being a "downer" in a group.
Sometimes they will say that your company sucks their spirit out and they will avoid you.

Dont letlittle things bother you.
Watch how adults do it. They will just put on a brave face.

Copy that trick
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On Mar 22 2010 @ 00:33, ~The Wind Blows to the Future~ said: |

Don’t be ashamed of being YOU…
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On Mar 22 2010 @ 00:40, WEASEL said: |

It is better to find the reason for your sadness. It is probably either wrong desires that are unattained or you are hiding your true self which is causing a conflict between your mind and your soul.

I used to get sad when I desired people to like me, now I know I need to like myself, so I desire to be a good person more than anything. I’ve even gotten over my sexual addiction thanks to my "code".
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To know what is good, reasonable and just.
To control myself to always be those things.
To be a bold expression of those things

On Mar 22 2010 @ 01:07, edetwi said: |

Most people are trying very hard to build a happy attitude in the face of a harsh world. When someone is indulgently sad, and tries to get other people to cheer them up all the time, it is a heavy burden. Some people are strong enough to bear it for you, but most people aren’t, so they will push you away to protect themselves. You shouldn’t assume that just because someone else seems happy, that they have energy to spare to solve your problems too. You have to show them you are taking responsibility for them yourself. If you can honestly do that, people will sympathize with you more.
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On Mar 22 2010 @ 01:30, MaEve* said: |

I LOVE Truth and Honesty BUT I never used it as a BULLY, I use it to defend my self, and TO MAKE a STAND.
For what is WRONG Of Being Perceived. Sorry, cause I felt being bullied so well.
I want to place it out..so as not to stay tormenting me.
It will BE a real good release..for me.

And All my Alliances here that WE IN Unity having the same View about IT,
They are here right now..

On that situation of yours, I think… ‘Seek a good chance (or time) to consult a more understanding friend, (not a backfighter, be sure she’s real) about what you really feel, carefully expressed, so you may come up with some better responses. Cause it could be also that you’re at your most vulnerable situation..

Speak out your feelings. We also have that kind of problem here in this place. Most people here never open up their sad feelings. Ending at times with real tragic. Never drain yourself from it IF it is persisting..Express yourself to a good trusted friend or any lovedone that you can open.

Dear Phil, girls still differ from boys..They should open up and talk..Unlike boys, they keep it until they explode. Girls become sick and weary.
Keep up Phil..

Bright up again! Be well.
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On Mar 22 2010 @ 01:49, phil8656 said: |

Kiss your friends good bye. It’s depressing to hear people always talk about their problems. Do you really want to depress your friends?
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On Mar 22 2010 @ 01:54, *****Cayote Bongwater!!!!!!!!!!! said: |

what do you think?

its really a chiche to continue stating life sucks, just live it, damn, just go outside and just express your self,

if you open your mind, people will open theirs too.
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